Reflections

Thoughts that did not fit neatly anywhere else.

Drafts, notes, and visual fragments for the parts of work and life that are still being figured out.

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Comparison: The Dreaded Thief of Joy

When I was younger, my parents would say, be more like him. You know, that one friend who seemed to do everything right: grades, manners, the whole package. At school, teachers said the same thing. Study...

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How You Sit Still Reflects How You Live Life

Between career demands, family obligations, financial worries, and the noise of social media and everything around us, our days often feel overpacked and overstimulated. Stillness, real stillness, becomes a...

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Is It Boredom, or Just the Hard Part?

A few weeks ago, I wrote about the importance of knowing when to quit: The Art of Throwing in the Towel, not out of defeat, but as a deliberate decision to walk away from something that no longer feels right....

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Play the Game, Coach the Player

We’ve all heard some version of the old saying, “life is a game,” where we’re each players constantly running, pivoting, and adapting to play our part. I’ve always thought sports offers a window into life: the...

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Still Waiting for That Big Moment

You know, the kind of scene you replay in your head, the game-changing deal, the creative breakthrough, the moment everything falls into place. I pictured it a few times. Thought about how it would all go down.

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Stop The Bullying : Why We’re So Hard on Ourselves

Let’s face it. Nobody likes a bully. But somehow, without even noticing, many of us end up becoming our own. We hold ourselves to impossible standards, pick at every flaw, and convince ourselves we’re never...

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The Art of Throwing in the Towel: When to Quit and Move On

Alright, let’s get real. Most people keep telling us to never quit, to persevere, and to push through. While it’s true that resilience, grit and having tough skin are important, there are times when it’s...

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The Balancing Act: Work, Life, and Everything In Between

When I started working, no one talked about work-life balance. It wasn’t a thing. If you left the office before your boss did, you were slacking. Weekends, evenings, holidays, work had a way of following you...

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When Showing Up Is the Only Story

You know when you’re scrolling through social media or reading what people are posting, and everyone seems like they’ve got life completely figured out?

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The Art of Puttering

On slowing down, doing ordinary things without a target, and finding room again.

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The Illusion of Copying

A short visual note on borrowing, remixing, and starting before the idea feels original.

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